I don’t think the “Law of Attraction” would be so popular if it was called the “Theory of Attraction”?
I don’t think it would have become famous from a book titled “My Belief About Attraction”?
Does calling something a Law make it similar in reality and significance to the “Law of Gravity”?
I don’t think so.
I can toss an apple up into the air and have it come down.
Watching an apple fall to the ground may seem to confirm the idea that what goes up must come down, but that statement is known to be false. You can throw a Voyager spacecraft up into the sky and never expect it to come back down.
Gravity still applies even though you’ve found an exception to the “what goes up must come down” rule-of-thumb.
This is what I suggest the “Law of Attraction” really is all about. It’s not a law – it’s a rule-of-thumb.
Attraction doesn’t work in all circumstances. In fact it is sometimes totally 180 degrees wrong. But it’s a better starting point than many others, as long as you recognize that this is all it is. A start.
One of the few outright jokes I tell to distract people in therapy goes something like this…
A preacher was giving his usual sermon when all of a sudden there was a cloud burst and rain began pouring down. It was so heavy that after a while the whole church began flooding and people were evacuating the church, but the preacher just stood there preaching in the ankle-deep water.
A man drove by in a car and shouted through the church doors, “Preacher, the rivers are overflowing their banks. You better get out of there before you drown!”
The preacher replied, “Don’t worry. God will save me.”
The man then drove away.
The water was now knee-deep and a man in a raft floated over to the church and said to the preacher, “You better get in here before you drown!”
The preacher just stood there and replied, “Don’t worry. God will save me.”
The man then rowed away.
The water was now waist-deep and a man in a power boat came to the preacher and said, “You better get out of there before you drown!”
The preacher stayed right where he was and replied “Don’t worry. God will save me.” With that the man jetted away.
The water was now neck-deep and a man in a helicopter came by and yelled to the preacher, “You better get out of there before you drown!”
The preacher refused to move and replied, “Don’t worry. God will save me.”
With that the man flew away.
The water then got so deep that the preacher was sucked under and died. When he opened his eyes he noticed that he was in heaven.
He then saw God and asked, “Oh God! Why didn’t you save me from that horrible flood?”
God replied, “I sent you a car, a raft, a power boat, and a helicopter! What else do you want from me?”
-Dr Martin W. Russell